Emotional Intelligence Can Help Athletes in Sports - by Sarah DarenFrom the Coach’s Clipboard Basketball Playbook
Sarah Daren is a featured writer on the Today Show website and has been a consultant for organizations across a number of industries including athletics, health and wellness, technology and education. When she's not caring for her children or watching the New York Yankees play, Sarah enjoys practicing yoga and reading a good book on the beach.
Emotional Intelligence Skills Make a Difference
The concept of emotional intelligence was first introduced in 1990, but only recently has it become a buzzword in business. Emotional intelligence is defined as "the ability to accurately perceive your own and others' emotions; to understand the signals that emotions send about relationships; and to manage your own and others' emotions."
In short, emotionally intelligent people are self-aware and self-regulating, and they're more empathetic and able to communicate with others. It's a quality that's often overlooked in student athletes, but it can be a huge asset for athletes as they play on teams at school or professionally. It makes a difference when players are aware of their own and others strengths, weaknesses, and feelings. It helps them to support one another and to continually work toward improving their skills.
Athletes with Emotional Intelligence Have the Upper Hand
The best athletes are those who are consistent. People who can perform brilliantly in one game and then completely lose their brilliance in the next game aren't going to be top performers. Coaches and teammates need to be able to count on a player to be consistent, and without the ability to regulate one's emotions, it's impossible to play consistently well. Anything that's "off" on that day could have a negative effect on the inconsistent player's game.
Athletes with emotional intelligence, however, have the upper hand. Emotional intelligence allows players to focus, understand their own emotions, and regulate them when the time comes to play the game. The bulk of athletic performance is mental, and athletes with emotional intelligence are able to get in the zone when they need to while understanding which skills they might need to work on for even better performance.
Athletes Perform Better and Strengthen Leaderships Skills
Of all the skills that emotional intelligence encompasses, self-awareness is the most important when it comes to sports. Why? Because self- awareness influences everything from performance and growth to leadership abilities. Although we think of the coach as the leader of any sports team, some players need to have leadership qualities as well-think of the quarterback in football.
Not only does self-awareness allow players to proactively analyze their own performance and make changes when necessary to excel, it also helps players understand their teammates and build trust. Teams function the best when players and coaches have mutual respect and trust for one another. That trust is built through empathy and understanding-both of which are components of emotional intelligence. When players trust their coaches and each other, they build influence and loyalty with one another.
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Creating Emotional Maturity Helps with Sports and Business
Professional athletes can't just play the game and go home. They need to understand how business works and be able to relate to all kinds of people. Young athletes often think of the glory and paycheck that's involved with playing on a pro team, but they'll need to learn business and communication skills to help them manage everything from sponsorship deals to making a good impression during interviews. Emotional maturity is a key skill whether you're on the field or in a conference room. Plus, not every player makes it to the pros, and learning business skills now as they develop their athletic abilities can be a good starting point later on in any career.
Developing Emotional Intelligence: Another Type of Training
Young athletes are often surprised that they need to train both their bodies and minds in order to succeed. Developing emotional intelligence isn't easy, but it's something that can benefit any player at any stage of their career. Think of it this way: it's just another type of practice.
Articles by Sarah Daren:
- Costs of School Athletics Is Increasing: 4 Things You Must Know
- Coaching 101: 4 Ways to Promote Leadership
- 3 Insights on the Declining Number of Athletic Officials
- 5 Reasons Why Coaches Make Great Teachers
- Avoiding Drug Abuse in Adolescence Through Athletics
- Maintaining Student-Athlete Stress Levels
- 4 Tips for Athletes Looking to Transfer Schools
- Top Sports Trends of 2018
- Importance of Athletic Scholarships
- Should You Go Back to School for Your Coaching Degree?
- 4 Benefits of Coaching Into Old Age
- The Pros and Cons of Athletes using Social Media
- The Importance of Good Health and Nutrition for Athletes
- 4 Ways to Inspire Kids to Exercise
- 4 Technology Resources That Athletes Can Utilize for Better Performance
- 5 Benefits of Coaching Youth Athletics
- 5 Ways Youth Sports can Boost Mental Health
- 5 Benefits of Playing Sports Abroad
- 6 Benefits of Playing Sports in School
- Emotional Intelligence Can Help Athletes in Sports
- How Sports and Exercise Impact Your Health and Well-being
- Sports and Exercise Tips for Students
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